Wednesday, May 16, 2007

WHAT I PLAN TO DO THIS SUMMER
After this class in the summer time I will stay in home .I like to spend time with my son and my family because my son is there years old .When I get ready to come to college he does not went me to . He Say's mom you not going to college because he always Say's mom play with me and this summer I Plan to take him to Disneyland because he like to rides allot after this I like to do the summer class.The next class is English 83 and English 80.
I went to be an LVN,and I am taking class for I want to finis this class and part time I going help for my dad in the store.I went to finish collage early and not in collage forever.
After summer school is finished,I would like to go some where for a few days, so that I am relax for some days and get away fore the hetid life of collage.I would stay in my home and not worry about school atterwise
IF I do not go anywhere for the summer vacation ,I wills be helping my dad at his gas-station . When I will be working my dad take the kids to the park so they do not get bored.Every Summer we try to go some where as a family for a couple of day that everyone can enjoy and relax.When we all go together I like this because everyone is happy to get of home and not do any work for few day.

Monday, May 07, 2007

Living On Your Own
I am not living on my own.I am living with my husband and his family.My family ( Parents )live in India. Me and my (his) family all liven together in big house on.June 30,2002 we build a new big house in Merced.My house build on one acre,and my house is really good.In this house there are eight member living and two kids together I have biggest family and it is allot of fun.My parents-law are very nice person.I am happily married 25 years old woman who has a wonderful husband and a beautiful three year old son.I am comfortable and happy with my husband and family. My family is busy all the time with our own business.I am satisfied about my future.My husband says,He does not went me to worry about anything because dad is the owner of the house and he worries about the but he does not want to pressurize me and have me go to college.
If I had been living alone, I think I would be lost.I am from big family and If I were to like alone.I would have gone mad lining with the big family made it eaiser to do everyday duties.I do not have to worry about paying the house but on the insurance.Having a big family also has the advantage that one never gets bored.

Friday, April 27, 2007

Blacksburg Virginia
It was a tragedy in Blacksburg, Virginia. I saw the news on Monday April 16, 2007, where at least 31 students and faculty of Virginia Tech were dead because they were shot by a gunman. Originally,it was suspected that there were two gunmen, but later it was surmised that there was only one. I can't believe that only one man killed 31 students at the same time and the detail as they new show on the TV and the testimony of the police is surprising, making this the deadliest shooting in modern U.S. history.
At approximately 7 a.m., Cho was seen loitering near the entrance to west Ambler hall ,a co-ed dormitory that houses 895 student . The hall is normally locked 10a.m. and it is not clear how Cho gained entrance to the facility.
About two hours later the initial shooting , Cho entered Norris hall ,which houses the Engineering science and Mechanic program , and chained the three main entrance shut. He then went to the second floor and began shooting and student and faculty member. By the end of this second attack nine minutes later ,30 people lay dead in four classroom and second floor hallway.
This devastating news should never be heard on the American College or School campuses. There should be safety measures taken that guarantee the safety of each and every student on campus. If this happens again, students will be afraid to go to school and colleges. safety Should be the first concern of school administrators so that all students feel safe while on college campuses.

Monday, April 16, 2007

celebrating spring break in my house
This spring break, I stayed in my home. I got up early in the morning, and after prayer and a small breakfast of Indian tea bread, I went to one of the gas stations and mini grocery stores, which my family owns. I worked as a cashier to help the family finances because my dad had gone to India for a vacation. So, unfortunately, I worked there and spent the rest of the time I cleaning my house and cooking food for husband. But, actually I'm happy to do these labors. On Saturday, my husband and I went to the Sikh Temple in the next town of Livingston, where we celebrated Vaisakhi. Vaisakhi is very important and colourful Sikh event, that even non-Sikh would enjoy. It occurs during mid-April every year, and year it was during spring break from studies at Merced College. In the Punjab, a rich agricultural valley along the great Ganges River,however vaisakhi has special significance for Sikhs as on this day, In 1699 our tenth Guru Gobind Singh Ji organized the order of the khalsa. After listening to the the granthi(Priest) we went to food hall for lunch.In the Gurdwara the food is very tasty. After lunch we came back home.The next day me and my husband eat the breakfast together.And went to Modesto Mall for shopping for our self. We went all around the mall but I did not like any thing so my husband told me to go to GAP store.He always like gap cloth.this store is too expansive compared to other stores. after buying we came back home and had dinner together and while watching TV we fell asleep. The next day I am came back to college. Although this vacation was not all that special for me but my son had lots of fun because he had a chance to go to India with his grandpa. He was overjoyed by the fact that he is going to India and till now talks about it. Spring vacation for me was time that I spent with my husband and working at the store and around the house.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Five-six years ago, when I was in India, all my family lived together. My dad have three brother and his family and our lived together. I have one brother and I have three cousin sisters two cousin brother. Me and my cousin Krian was going to same college in Raikot near by my town.She is very beautiful girl.One day she went to Canada and married a guy that liked her. His name is Banty.Banty and his family in Canada and his uncle and aunt live in India.Her marriage was on January 8,2002.This marriage was very wonderful for my town and every person talk about her marriage,we have never seen such a wonderful marriage before. Because this time people marriage in home nobody go to restaurant,only rich people go to restaurant.Meany people jealous for my parents because the parents were doing a wonderful job in a very short time.Many people go to see the arrangement and see how the groom looked like because people was thinking her husband was an old man.Many girl go to foreign country marriage with old person and the parents give cash so that their daughter can go to a foreign country and live peacefully. My sister's marriage preparations were done in only eight day.This is very hard time how can all this be done, there are a lot of arrangements to make. Many people was thinking her parents give him cash this by she is engaged. After marriage my brother-law was talking to me and he told me that my friend's parents went to his house,they said that they will give him a lot of cash and a new car if he married their daughter, but my brother in law said that he only wants to marry a girl that has values and can take care of him and his family. He had understood that those people were jealous because their daughter will not be able to go to Canada, and my sister could. After marriage my sister went a relatives house and the lady of the house brought my sister and brother in law tea and some cookies. She had added something to her tea so that she will not be able to go to Canada. When my sister went for her medical to come to Canada she failed three times before she finally passed. People are always jealous or envious of those that are better than them or assume that some people are better than they are. Jealousy is a disease that has affected the hearts and minds of many people. When someone is well off people think the worst of that person and put many accusations on that person. Jealousy can only be avoided if all people think alike and say, so what if he is well of then me, he/she worked harder than I did and if I work hard I can achieve that statue also.

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Wednesday, March 07, 2007

A Most Embarrasing Time in My Life
Ten years ago I was thirteen, and it was a hot summer day. I had to go with parents to my uncle's house in Jalander for a wedding. We were to stay at my uncle's house for one week. But, before we set off for the Uncle's house, my mother had made chapati, an India favorite, a of sort burrito like food, filled with potatoes. We had also packed homemade yogurt and butter for eating at my Uncle's home. The buses and the highways of India are busy with all sorts of vehicles and animals, and the pavement is bumpy, so it takes about four hours to get to my uncle's house from my parent's home in Raikot. Being as we were so filled up with food, the jerky motions of the Indian made Jain sedan soon made me begin to feel nauseated and unstable in the stomach. Half an hour later in the drive, I tried to reach across my mother to roll down the window, but too late I threw up on my mother's lovely tan colored suit. Although it was a disaster for my mother and me, My father and brothers who were sitting behind me laughed out loud and would not stop laughing. The horrible stench of the vomit caused by the chapti not absent from my stomach was overwhelming, and by the heat of the car made it worse. In India, decent places to pull over and shower are hard to find, but eventually, our driver found a stop. This horribly embarrassing not only because of what had just transpired, but because I also had take a bath in a public restroom and throw away my otherwise nice clothes. This experience was so embarrassing for me that I decided never to eat so much before I am driving somewhere, and I always try to sit at a window seat. To this day, whenver the family gathers for a roadtrip, my brother laugh and remind me of this horrible experience.

Monday, February 26, 2007

In India my favorite family member was my mom.She was my best friend in my life.Right now she in India. She is a nice lady and wonderful mom.Every time she supported me in homework,cooking and many other things.In India some times I was sad and I was not doing very will,she helped me and she showed me the right track for my future.One day I went to the clothing-store for shopping with my mom. That day at the clothing store I saw many well dressed people and I was confused as to who they were because they semmed to know my mopther well and I had never meet themin my life before. We we walked deeper in to the store I came to know that they are from America and my mom wanted to arrange my marriage with the aldest son of the family, Lucky. My mother had wanted to arrange my wedding with Lucky becasue she knew that Lucky would keep me happy and that I would be happy with his family. The time I had spent with my mother is unforgetfull because I will never have a freind like her. she has always been there for me no matter what and I am sure that she will always support me through thick and thin. I went to India last year during the summer to meet my family and my mother was really happy to see me along with my son and husband. When I had meet her I felt that i have found something that brings joy in to my life. My mother will always be my freind no matter what happens and I know that through the tough times of the life my mother will always be there and I can always count on her to make me smile. My mother is the most special person in my lilfe. She gave me direction as to where my life is going and she has always and will always be with me.